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![]() A quick Google search was done by a couple of friends present during the declaration of an intention to conduct the puja in addition to the three working professionals. One could notice a renewed enthusiasm in those Googlers to find an authentic and correct way to perform the puja almost a calm competition and polite argument on who first finds the most authentic page on Google. To add to the “polite argument”, a couple of the five brains working towards finding a solution had reasonably recent memories of attending such a puja. What this did is add in directly contradicting assertions on the core requirements of the puja. For example, Wikipedia says a Satyanarayana Puja does not require a Brahmin to perform, but two of them were vocal in their disagreement. I can only describe the slight nervousness and irritation on part of the three hosts who wanted a quick consensus so that the necessary ingredients could be arranged for. If this wasn’t enough, one of the three hosts wanted to perform a “havan”; the reason being to eliminate each single trace of negativity. The other host and a friend responded quickly “What about the over-sensitive fire alarms?”. The determination to conduct the havan faded slightly, but we all know how effective women are when they express their sadness. The boys melted and started thinking seriously on how to conduct a havan without offending the permanent unwanted tenant in every apartment i.e. the fire alarm. Throughout these discussions, respect for each other’s views and a willingness to hear the other remained. Generally, a discussion amongst youngsters is usually characterized by a great deal of respect and there is no imposition of one’s views on the rest. No offence to the senior readers of this article, but I am referring to the way I have observed discussions between different age groups on a general basis. ![]() The hosts had a laborious weekend, though other close friends offered their help in cleaning up the place and obtaining all ingredients required for the puja. We Indians have an uncanny knack of almost involving ourselves in any festivities conducted by others. We often tend to offer our suggestions which, at times, get a little too much, but a host would never feel alone. You always find a “last-minute savior” who provides the missing tools and equipments, including becoming the pujari! We began the puja at 6 pm on a Sunday evening. Another notable fact is that we Indians generally have a tendency to arrive significantly late at a function or a party (often referred to as the “Indian Stretchable Time (IST)), but for a puja, most people are punctual. One would ask why? One answer is that all attendees of the puja have a self-serving reason to sincerely perform the puja. The benefits that the puja offers, as is mythologically believed, brings in this unprecedented sincerity and the resulting punctuality. Some are religious, some are atheists, some are agnostic and some spiritual. A common thread is a “belief” in the religious festivity. You also have a few for whom it is more of a social gathering a reason to meet your extended social circle who they haven’t met since a long time. I wouldn’t say they don’t respect the religious beliefs, but some of them often end up talking about their jobs and life in general much to the disturbance of the puja. I don’t mean to create a gender bias here, but for a few women I know, an additional reason for their excitement was getting to wear nice pretty Indian outfits. The interesting part was that among the attendees, there was one white American and a Pakistani national. The reason for the white American to attend the puja was because he was fascinated and inquisitive when an Indian friend of his explained interesting facts about the puja. More touching was the response of the Pakistani girl who sincerely bowed down to Lord Vishnu and participated in the “aarti” as well. Her respect and belief in Islam as well as Hinduism was parallel and equal. Talk about religious tolerance! ![]() ![]() It is another matter that the social chit-chat about what dresses were worn by others, how sweet the prasad was and general gossiping started the very next day, but who claims that a puja changes you 180 degrees! The lives of attendees got a religious restructuring and I thank Mr. Google for enabling us in a significant manner. | |
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![]() *Kartikeya Tanna is an attorney by profession and is a partner at Tanna Associates, a law firm in the State of Gujarat. Currently, working at the Washington D.C. law offices of Jones Day. Kartikeya is actively involved in current affairs around the world and has a special interest in politics. He has previously written articles on various issues in finance and economics for various publications. For a detailed biodata of Kartikeya, please visit
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Kartikeya ji Nice of you to have performed a pooja learning steps by the google and thanks also to those who posted it for likes of you.But if you call this as ethos of our hindu religion then that is NOT your fault but of our religious torch holders..karmakanda or Jyotish of any kind is abhorred by person NO less than Shankaracharya ji !..Hinduism and Upanishads in all its glory makes you independent of all these ..and more..It is poetry of life and many exploit it for their own end..
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Beautiful write up. Some of your sentences made me laugh. I really liked your expression and description Added By Chandra
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I appreciate the enthusiasm you had shown in performing the Puja, along with your friends. The google has done a lot of service to the people, and it has equally helped you in performing the Satya Narayan Puja. It would have been better, if the Havan & Satya Narayan puja would have been videographed. Dr Chaman Lal Raina
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